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You’ve got a three year old child, so sort of halfway through that initial period of socialization, and you take that child out in public. Okay, what do you want for the child? Who cares about you? What do you want for the child? You want the child to be able to interact with other children, and adults, so that the children are welcoming and smile and want to play with him or her, and so the adults are happy to see the child and treat him or her properly. And if your child’s a horrible little monster because you’re afraid of disciplining them, or you don’t know how to do that properly, then what they’re going to do is they’re going to experience nothing but rejection from other children, and false smiles from other parents and adults. And that’s, so then you’re throwing the child out there into a world where every single face that they see is either hostile or lying.