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Kids need to go out and push themselves against danger because that’s what life is, is pushing yourself against danger and when you see kids doing things that are dangerous but spectacular then you kind of have a moral obligation to back the hell off and let them experiment with their own mortality because you can’t keep them safe, the best thing you can do is make them able and courageous and I would say that that’s a more difficult lesson, generally speaking, for mothers to learn than for fathers to learn and that was Freud’s fundamental observation but it’s absolutely crucial