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Women mate across and up success hierarchies and men mate across and down. Women like men who are about four years older, cross-culturally. They like men who manifest signs of success as well as being handsome and personable and all of that. And the reason for that, as far as I can tell, is that they’re looking to equalize the economic disparity that exists because women take a harder hit from sex and pregnancy than men. So they’re looking to equalize that and no wonder they’re looking for someone who’s… This is for long-term mating, who’s competent and generous. Competence would be intelligence, general cognitive ability, and the markers that go along with that. They want conscientiousness or openness as well as other desirable personality traits.