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Every ideal is a judge and that makes perfect sense because an ideal is something to which you aspire and The gap between you and that ideal if it’s your ideal is felt as judgment And so that’s one of the reasons people are very afraid to have an ideal That’s why I wrote do not hide things in the fog. It’s like well, you should lay out an ideal You should pursue an ideal. Why wouldn’t you? Well when you make your ideal explicit it turns into your judge well, then you can listen to that judge and And move forward and transform but you know It’s pretty damn harsh because it especially to begin with we pause it an ideal, especially if you’re in a mess God every bit of you is being judged as unworthy Yeah There’s seven endless reasons not to want that